That's what I have to get this trip to Florida together. Let's see during those three days I would also like to find Mike a job and get John feeling better. Not too big of a task is it? Actually Steve and I worked well together this weekend and got most of the stuff around the house ready for John and Jesi to move in. I tried to do a little child proofing and get things a little more organized. Fortunately Mike is good in the kitchen and can find most things around the house. Also we took care of details like deliveries and papers. I have list of garbage days, neighbors and friends to call on for help, and what is left over in the freezer. I still have not attacked the clothes issue. The suitcase is lying on the floor in the bedroom but it is empty. Hmmmm.... No we will have clothes on when you see us. I think this afternoon I will start with what Steve will need for work clothes and then try to move into what we will need the rest of the time. I am planning some sweaters and jackets because last time we were there in January we suffered some pretty low temperatures for a week. We did start the shoe wardrobe last night. Lets see there are golf shoes and tennis shoes and running shoes and walking shoes and sandals and work shoes and dress up shoes. That should cover almost all of the activities we may get involved in. I am usually a very conservative packer but I think this time I am going for, if we might need it, pack it. Of course I also like the philosophy of "if you didn't bring it and you need it, buy it" .
Talked to John yesterday and he had just finished an MRI of his spine. The doctor thought on Wednesday that if the melanoma was in the spine it could be causing some of the back pain. We will know results later this week, not that it will change anything though. Last week after the appointments John got 2 units of blood on Thursday. His platelets were at 17 and they need to be at 100 to start the temador pill. So they decided to bring him back on Friday and give him another unit of whole blood and a unit of platelets. Hopefully that, in addition to the recovery time from the chemo will get him up to the level necessary to start the temador on Wednesday. That is the target date. Seems the insurance covered the temador without an appeal. That is good news too. Let's hope this is the magic pill.
I have seen lots of friends over the past few days and everyone without fail has offered help to John and Jesi and Mike while we are gone. And they have all told me get away, take some time off, try not to worry. I am so thankful to have such wonderful people around me that are so caring. If you think I am holding up well it is only because you are all there supporting me. I am going to spend some Linda and Steve time in Florida too. I am sure I have failed to tell Steve how important he is to me in getting us though this difficult time. I am very lucky to have such a wonderful husband.
Todays thought is from Confucius. It is a thought to ponder.
"It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not stop."
2 comments:
Very smart to pack yourself last...the way I figure it, if you run out of time, just skip packing your suitcase. I am ready to do some serious shopping (with my Christmas $$) but I am willing to wait for you. After all these years we have known each other, I do not recall ever shopping with you. I think it is time to remedy that situation. I suggest that in the future you take my approach when asked what I would like for Christmas. Quickly assume the role of a martyr and say, "oh nothing save your money!" This year that approach worked very well and I have gift cards galore and money to spend.
I am glad that you have such good friends in Toldeo who sound wonderful and so helpful. I am sure they are sincere in their advice and their offers to help John, Jesi and Mike. I feel guilty that I too cannot offer to help, but I will try to take over the "relax and try not to worry" part.
Can hardly wait to see you. My best to everyone left behind and our prayers continue.
The sheets are clean on your bed, the pillows are fluffed; Tom will be marinating the flank steak Weds (it's his specialty) and the wine will be breathing on Thurs. Needless to say we can't wait, and of all of our friends, we could take you without clothes (it could bring back Hilton Head)!
I continue to pray for Mike's job, John's health, and a safe and refreshing trip for you and Stu.
Blessings your way!
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