It was not a good week for Mike. Kristin has decided that she is not ready for independent living and is moving back to her parents home. She wanted a wedding, but maybe not a marriage. Living with Mike has not been her cup of tea even as just roommates, ( they have had separate bedrooms) so we can only imagine what it would have been like if they were married. This weekend she will be moving out and we are in the process of finding a new roommate for Mike. He is sad. He is disappointed. But he knows that things will be OK. He deserves to have someone care about him as much as he cares about them. This was just not the case with Kristin. She liked being with Mike and being his fiance and she really wanted to have a nice wedding but she was not prepared to be a partner in a marital relationship. She has not been as capable of adapting to independent living as Mike.
Mike is coming to our house for the weekend as we are entertaining my parents who will be here for AJ's 3rd birthday party Saturday. It will be a family weekend and Mike will have lots of support to continue in his goal of independent living. He does like the new job and living in Bowling Green. Perhaps it is better that this is happening sooner rather than later.
1 comment:
Linda,
Sorry that Mike is going through this but better now than later. I hope you have sucess finding him a roommate.
Post a Comment